“There was a man who made a living selling balloons at a fair. He had all colors of balloons, including red, yellow, blue, and green. Whenever business was slow, he would release a helium-filled balloon into the air and when the children saw it go up, they all wanted to buy one. They would come up to him, buy a balloon, and his sales would go up again. He continued this process all day. One day, he felt someone tugging at his jacket. He turned around and saw a little boy who asked, “If you release a black balloon, would that also fly?” Moved by the boy’s concern, the man replied with empathy, “Son, it is not the color of the balloon, it is what is inside that makes it go up.”

The same thing applies to our lives. It is what is inside that counts. The thing inside of us that makes us go up is our -attitude. The foundation of success regardless of your chosen field, is attitude.If attitude is such a critical factor in success, shouldn’t you examine your attitude toward life and ask how your attitude will affect your goals?

Our attitude determines how we react to adversity, our ability to grow and to learn, our ability to overcome challenges, and create bonds with others. And our attitude as it is now is the product of a lifetime of instilled beliefs. Attitude, then, can either help us along or stand in our way. An easy way to look at attitude is to use the glass half-full versus glass half-empty analogy. The volume of water is the same in the glass, but the positive person – the one with the optimistic attitude – sees it as a glass half-full. The individual with a sour outlook, who only sees the negative in life, views it as half-empty.

Your attitude to life, determines your altitude.
How far you can go in life  is the result of how you take life.

Keep Smiling 🙂


Life is not a meaningless accident but a continuous process.

According to the seed that’s sown,
So is the fruit you reap there from,
Doer of good will gather good,
Doer of evil, evil reaps,
Down is the seed and thou shalt taste
The fruit thereof.

Happiness and misery, which are the common lot of humanity, are the inevitable effects of causes. Acts bear their own rewards and punishments to the individual doer whether human justice finds out or not. Life is a boomerang. If you are always throwing out negativity then you should not be surprised when this is what you get in return. On the other hand if you are always positive then this is what you will receive as well. Be kind and compassionate to others because you never know when you may need kindness or compassion as well. Don’t judge or you could find others judging you. Some people spend their whole lives miserable and complaining, and they wonder why their life is so negative but they refuse to make an effort to change things or alter their outlook and attitude. If you want to get positive people and emotions in your life then you have to be positive in your dealings with others. If you are not willing to do this then you can not expect others to treat you this way in return. Always remember that fate can be fickle, and you should expect to receive what you give so make sure you give what you want to get.

I want to share a story, I read somewhere:

“A little boy got angry with his mother and shouted at her, “I hate you, I hate you.” Because of fear of reprimand, he ran out of the house. He went up to the valley and shouted, “I hate you, I hate you,” and back came the echo, “I hate you, I hate you.” This was the first time in his life he had heard an echo. He got scared, went to his mother for protection and said there was a bad boy in the valley who shouted “I hate you, I hate you.” The mother understood and she asked her son to go back and shout, “I love you, I love you.” The little boy went and shouted, “I love you, I love you,” and back came the echo. That taught the little boy a lesson that our life is like an echo: We get back what we give.

Benjamin Franklin said, “When you are good to others, you are best to yourself.”

Whether it is our thoughts, actions or behavior, sooner or later they return and with great accuracy. Treat people with respect on your way up because you will be meeting them on your way down.

Goodness has a way of coming back; that is the nature of the beast. One doesn’t have to do good with a desire to get back. It just happens automatically.

The universe is neutral to your thought, decision, action and it respond back alike without any rectification or favorism of vibes you radiate. Once you send positive vibes of love, help, happiness and respect then you will attract alike in multiplicative way. Similarly if you send negative vibes of hatred, anger and jealousy then you will attract alike too. So choice is yours, what you desire to attract in your life.

How people treat you is there Karma, How You treat them is yours.

Keep Smiling 🙂


This is the post excerpt.

With an something totally different background, when I decided to write I had to endure raised eyebrows and skeptical looks wherever I went but once you discover a job that you enjoy with all your heart, everything else gets tuned out. MY DECISION TO FIND MYSELF. Yeah, actually I love writing. Though I’m starting late, but a journey of thousand miles start with a single step……..

Self-discovery means many things. It means finding your purpose in life (we all have a purpose), it means digging deep into your childhood and revealing the experiences that shaped you… good and bad. It means realizing what your beliefs are and living by them. The effects of self-discovery include happiness, fulfillment, clarity and maybe even more

So,stop being your own worst enemy! Stop lying to yourself about your emotions and feelings and start accepting them and allowing yourself to feel whatever is it you feel. The freedom you will feel within yourself is reward enough however, the universe will give you back the love that you have finally and justifiably started to give yourself.

As a final point, see who you are. Really see it. When you have seen it, adopt an attitude that you’re not afraid to go against the grain. Stop adapting to society and start being you. The empowerment that results will astonish you……

Keep Smiling:-)